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raj_105_2001 | A beautiful entry from Yahoo Answers: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070811092300AAJmnBU |
FistOfLegend | Whenever I see someone who guards themselves, I see someone who wants the very opposite- love and reassurance. They probably take love more seriously than others, too.
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LetsDance | I agree, FistOfLegend. |
hippichick | ...and they have been hurt, very hurt. |
FistOfLegend | But someone who's genuinely cold, that shoves away all love and makes you feel bad for offering it? They're the worst. I don't feel sorry for them at all. |
GemGemGem | "some people build walls, not to keep others out, but to see who cares enough to break them down" I think this is so true. Thanks for posting this! |
LetsDance | GemGemGem, I know a capricorn like that. |
raj_105_2001 | The weaker the heart, the stronger are the walls, after all, if the walls are not strong enough what else would protect with the weak thing beating inside? This is the reality. |
GemGemGem | I've found that the people with the strongest/tallest walls, once broken past, turn out to be the most faithful,dedicated, committed lovers. |
OzMeg222 | Its the hardest thing in the world to let ur guard down. But I got hurt far worse by having them there and waiting for someone to break them down than I ever would have had I let him behind my walls in the first place. Its a daily struggle for me to keep my walls open, but I make a conscious effort. How is anyone gonna know u well enough to WANT to break down the walls if u have them up in the first place? Just a thought..... |
Nyah | OzMeg222, oooh I think you just know when you sense a wonderful soul... and you don't even know the person but you know he/she is just fantastic and all you can think of is how to get through those huge walls and get them to trust you too.. There are a few people out there who actually can SEE you, right through your walls.. |
Pumpkin Peace | quote: There are a few people out there who actually can SEE you, right through your walls..
Oh, what a beautiful thought, Nyah! |
darkdreamer | Yes, I agree with almost everything said here. I`m one of these people with really high walls, but whenever someone made it through the wall into my "inner circle", I am completely committed. And luckily there have been people who believed that it was worth waiting for me to lower my defences. I`m working hard on not letting the walls get so high and thick again, but it`s tough. I`m working against a year-long habit here. BTW I don`t know if my heart is weak or not. What is a weak heart anyway? |
cheshirekat | Yes, I have hard time letting the walls down and my heart to shine through and it's not the people on the outside Im worried about.. it's me, I don't have enough faith in myself, to just let go of the defences to trust in my own strength, which I feel I have none at the moment thus the need for the walls and distance. Every once in awhile, someone does get in and I have to keep myself from pushing them out. I have a fear of being lonely but I feel most comfortable when I am alone, it's probably due to Saturn in Aquarius. |